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Why I've Worked For 50 Years as Author David Maillu’s House Help; 73-Year-Old Victoria Meme Speaks About Her Journey

On October 21, 1974, a young woman named Victoria Meme took a brave step into the unknown. At just 23 years old, she left her home in Kilungu, a village in present-day Makueni County, to work as a house help in Nairobi.

Her parents were worried about her moving to the city, which they considered dangerous. However, Victoria was determined to achieve financial freedom and create a better life for herself and her future family.

Victoria's journey began when she arrived at the home of David Maillu, a celebrated author known for his contributions to African literature. Over the past 50 years, she has become a beloved member of the Maillu family, marking an impressive milestone that few can achieve. 

Now, at 73 years old, Victoria reflects on her time with the Maillu family, proud of her achievements and the life she has built.

When Victoria first came to Nairobi, she quickly learned to navigate the city's challenges. She started as a house help, caring for the Maillu's daughter, Elizabeth Kavuli, while the household had a male cook.
As time went on, Victoria's responsibilities grew. In 1982, after the cook was moved to the countryside, Mr. Maillu decided that Victoria could handle all the domestic chores. This change was a significant turning point in her career. She embraced her new duties, learning to cook, clean, and even bake.

Victoria takes pride in her work and her role in raising Elizabeth. She taught the girl to speak and write in fluent Kikamba, as Mr. Maillu wanted. 

“Teaching her Kikamba was one of my biggest achievements,” Victoria says. Mr. Maillu, who has written over 60 books, believes that promoting African languages is vital for cultural identity and liberation from colonial influences.

Victoria's relationship with the Maillu family has always been respectful. She has never felt ashamed of her job, stating, "I am satisfied with this job because it has enabled me to raise my children."

Her employer has always treated her kindly. "Mr. Maillu has never said a harsh word to me," she adds. This positive environment has allowed her to flourish both personally and professionally.

A significant influence in Victoria's life was the late Hannelore Maillu, Mr. Maillu's wife. Hannelore arrived in Kenya in 1967 to support an evangelism mission. She became a pillar of strength for Victoria, offering support during difficult times. 


“Whenever I had a problem, she would tell me, ‘Victoria, don’t lose hope. I am here for you,’” Victoria recalls with emotion. Hannelore's guidance and compassion made a lasting impact on Victoria's life.

Victoria's daily routine is rigorous. She wakes up at 5 am and goes to bed after 9 pm. Her duties include cleaning the house, washing clothes, shopping for groceries, and preparing meals for the family. 

Despite her hard work, Victoria remains humble. She operates from a rented house in Kibra and walks to work every day, showcasing her commitment to her job and her employers.

Over the years, Victoria has faced challenges, including rumors from neighbors about her relationship with Mr. Maillu after Hannelore's passing. However, Victoria insists that their bond is purely that of family and mutual respect.
"If I had disrespected Mama, I would not have stayed here for all these years," she explains. Mr. Maillu, too, finds the rumors amusing and attributes them to people’s inability to comprehend a long-lasting working relationship.

Victoria's dedication has not gone unnoticed. In recognition of her years of service, Mr. Maillu and his late wife gifted her a piece of land in 2015, which she has turned into a modest home. She has successfully raised her three children, ensuring they received an education despite her struggles.

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